Our Mission
We guide individuals and couples through the complexities of divorce with strategic, compassionate support — helping them navigate transitions smoothly and cost-effectively so they can focus on what matters most.
Our vision
To transform society’s approach to divorce by normalizing the power of a dedicated divorce support network, where individuals can embrace change, heal, and build fulfilling, meaningful lives during and after their divorce journey.
Our Story
Resilient Divorce Pathways was created out of a simple truth: divorce doesn’t have to mean chaos and court battles.
Over the years, we’ve seen firsthand how high conflict can take a heavy toll on families. The wrong path through divorce is painful, costly, and overwhelming — and far too often, children end up caught in the middle.
We knew there had to be a better way, and that’s why Resilient Divorce Pathways was founded. Our mission is to guide families to make thoughtful choices from the get go, and help you create a clear, intentional path forward, minimizing conflict and safeguarding what matters most — your children, stability, and future.
At the heart of our work is the belief that divorce is only a chapter, not the whole story. With the right support, families can turn the page toward a future that is brighter, steadier, and truly their own.
Let’s write your next chapter together and create a future you feel good about.
Our approach
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Nikki’s coaching philosophy is built on the belief that everyone possesses the inner strength and ability to create positive change in their lives. She firmly believes that we are the hero or heroine of our own story, and adversities, while challenging, are also opportunities for growth. It allows us to learn invaluable life lessons that can shape our character, and force us to learn perseverance. Nikki believes coaching needs to be a safe, non-judgmental space that allows people to feel supported along their journey towards resilience. Through coaching, she works side-by-side with clients to explore who they are and what motivates them to better narrow down goals, identify limiting beliefs, and develop actionable strategies to move forward.
Nikki began her professional training studying Psychology, Sociology, and English at Tulane University. After she received her Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology from Tulane, she completed her Master’s Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from the University of San Diego in 2004.
Nikki’s career path includes roles as a domestic violence counselor, substance abuse counselor, and mental health professional within rehabilitation facilities. She later pivoted her professional practice to focus on coaching, consultation, and psycho-education through her work at Family Mediation & Divorce Center and Learning Through Play. In this capacity, her work centers around parenting, co-parenting, life skills and transition work. From her diverse professional experiences, Nikki recognized the value of specializing in assisting clients simultaneously facing multiple challenges and transitions. To address these gaps in services, she founded Resilient Living.
Nikki is proud to be married to Jason Mingledorff, a well-respected musician and music professor at Loyola University, for almost twenty years. They have lived in New Orleans for over 25 years, and together, they are raising their three sons (ages 15, 12, and 9) along with their fur babies, a cute yorkipoo, and four cats in their home by the Mississippi River. Nikki is a consummate traveler, voracious reader, and lover of all things culture, food and music. She firmly believes play and trying new things keeps us all young at heart, and enjoys regular adventures with her friends and family.
Nikki’s Specialties are:
Knowledge of your traits, strengths and weaknesses are essential for strategic goals.
Enhancing self-awareness, self-esteem, and self-confidence promotes growth.
Setting meaningful goals in various areas of life is best achieved when work the work is done strategically.
Goals cannot be achieved without motivation, time management, habit formation, focus, and problem-solving techniques.
Developing effective and healthy coping skills is essential for a resilient, balanced life.
Adaptability helps build resilience. It allows individuals and families to adjust well and find solutions in the face of changing circumstances
Positive parenting practices encourages healthy connection and attachment.
Forging a strong and motivated co-parenting relationship prioritizes the best interests of the children, promotes healthy development, and encourages a supportive home environment.
Constructive communication and problem-solving skills are vital in healthy relationships.
Meet Nikki Mingledorff
- Founder & Managing Director, Resilient Living & Learning Through Play
- Transformational-Transition Life Coach
- Relationship Coach
- Life Strategist
- Psychoeducational Educator
Nikki Mingledorff is the Owner and Managing Director of Resilient Living and Learning Through Play. She is also the Program Director of the Family Mediation & Divorce Center. She is a Transformational-Transition Life Coach, Relationship Coach, Life Strategist and Educator who is passionate about helping individuals, couples and families live their best lives. Her mission is to empower and inspire her clients to unlock their full potential, overcome obstacles, and realize their aspirations, enabling them to pursue a life that is authentic, purposeful, and resilient.
If you are ready to embark on your own transformative journey, and feel like Nikki might be a good fit to help guide you along this path, reach out today!
Nikki provides:
- Transformational Life-Transition Coaching
- Parenting Transition Coaching
- Confident Coparenting Coaching
- Family Transition Coaching
- Marriage Transition Coaching
- Communication & Conflict Resolution Coaching
- Court Coping Skills Coaching
Nikki has extensive training in:
Systems Therapy: Nikki employs techniques stemming from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Emotion-Focused Therapy, & Strategic Therapy in her coaching businesses. She is also very influenced by Minuchin’s Structural Family Therapy, Bowenian Family Systems approach, and Virginia Satir’s Human Validation Process model.
Play Therapy: Nikki is particularly focused on educating parents on Gary Landreth’s Child Parent Relationship Therapy treatment program through her work with Learning Through Play.
Trauma-Focused Modalities: Nikki is EMDR certified, and has extensive training in Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
Nikki’s coaching philosophy is built on the belief that everyone possesses the inner strength and ability to create positive change in their lives. She firmly believes that we are the hero or heroine of our own story, and adversities, while challenging, are also opportunities for growth. It allows us to learn invaluable life lessons that can shape our character, and force us to learn perseverance. Nikki believes coaching needs to be a safe, non-judgmental space that allows people to feel supported along their journey towards resilience. Through coaching, she works side-by-side with clients to explore who they are and what motivates them to better narrow down goals, identify limiting beliefs, and develop actionable strategies to move forward.
Nikki began her professional training studying Psychology, Sociology, and English at Tulane University. After she received her Bachelor’s Degree in Psychology from Tulane, she completed her Master’s Degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from the University of San Diego in 2004.
Nikki’s career path includes roles as a domestic violence counselor, substance abuse counselor, and mental health professional within rehabilitation facilities. She later pivoted her professional practice to focus on coaching, consultation, and psycho-education through her work at Family Mediation & Divorce Center and Learning Through Play. In this capacity, her work centers around parenting, co-parenting, life skills and transition work. From her diverse professional experiences, Nikki recognized the value of specializing in assisting clients simultaneously facing multiple challenges and transitions. To address these gaps in services, she founded Resilient Living.
Nikki is proud to be married to Jason Mingledorff, a well-respected musician and music professor at Loyola University, for almost twenty years. They have lived in New Orleans for over 25 years, and together, they are raising their three sons (ages 15, 12, and 9) along with their fur babies, a cute yorkipoo, and four cats in their home by the Mississippi River. Nikki is a consummate traveler, voracious reader, and lover of all things culture, food and music. She firmly believes play and trying new things keeps us all young at heart, and enjoys regular adventures with her friends and family.
Nikki’s Specialties are:
Knowledge of your traits, strengths and weaknesses are essential for strategic goals.
Enhancing self-awareness, self-esteem, and self-confidence promotes growth.
Setting meaningful goals in various areas of life is best achieved when work the work is done strategically.
Goals cannot be achieved without motivation, time management, habit formation, focus, and problem-solving techniques.
Developing effective and healthy coping skills is essential for a resilient, balanced life.
Adaptability helps build resilience. It allows individuals and families to adjust well and find solutions in the face of changing circumstances
Positive parenting practices encourages healthy connection and attachment.
Forging a strong and motivated co-parenting relationship prioritizes the best interests of the children, promotes healthy development, and encourages a supportive home environment.
Constructive communication and problem-solving skills are vital in healthy relationships.
Meet Nikki Mingledorff
Hi, I’m Nikki Mingledorff — a certified divorce coach, family & divorce mediator, and parenting educator with a foundation in Marriage and Family Therapy. For decades, I’ve guided families through life’s toughest transitions, and for the past seven years I’ve specialized in the complex dynamics of divorce, parenting, and co-parenting.
People often ask me how I came to specialize in divorce, and the simple answer is that divorce work wasn’t something I sought out — it chose me. I’ve always been drawn to parenting work and helping people live as their authentic selves, but time and time again, I found that the moments parents needed the most guidance were during divorce, especially when it came to co-parenting. That’s where I realized my skills made the greatest impact, so I decided to lean in fully to this work.
At home in New Orleans, I’m a wife of 21 years, mom to three growing boys, and a firm believer in the power of community, creativity, and shared meals. I’m also a consummate traveler, voracious reader, endless explorer, and lover of culture, food, tea, and music. I believe play and trying new things keeps us young at heart, and I make time regularly for adventures with friends and family.
Every story is unique — I’d love to learn yours. Let’s connect for a free consultation and map out your next steps together.
Nikki Mingledorff is the Owner and Managing Director of Resilient Living and Learning Through Play. She is also the Program Director of the Family Mediation & Divorce Center. She is a Transformational-Transition Life Coach, Relationship Coach, Life Strategist and Educator who is passionate about helping individuals, couples and families live their best lives. Her mission is to empower and inspire her clients to unlock their full potential, overcome obstacles, and realize their aspirations, enabling them to pursue a life that is authentic, purposeful, and resilient.
If you are ready to embark on your own transformative journey, and feel like Nikki might be a good fit to help guide you along this path, reach out today!
Nikki provides:
- Transformational Life-Transition Coaching
- Parenting Transition Coaching
- Confident Coparenting Coaching
- Family Transition Coaching
- Marriage Transition Coaching
- Communication & Conflict Resolution Coaching
- Court Coping Skills Coaching
Nikki has extensive training in:
Systems Therapy: Nikki employs techniques stemming from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Emotion-Focused Therapy, & Strategic Therapy in her coaching businesses. She is also very influenced by Minuchin’s Structural Family Therapy, Bowenian Family Systems approach, and Virginia Satir’s Human Validation Process model.
Play Therapy: Nikki is particularly focused on educating parents on Gary Landreth’s Child Parent Relationship Therapy treatment program through her work with Learning Through Play.
Trauma-Focused Modalities: Nikki is EMDR certified, and has extensive training in Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
Who We Serve
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